How To Improve Relationships Through Tantra

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According to research article , Tantra can be a very good way to improve partner’s relationship, and I’ve recently read an article on LMB about the tips to improve relationship with tantra. As a 10 year tantra massage therapist , today I wanted to share some of my experience and idea about  How To Improve Relationships Through Tantra.  Man and woman can be compared to heaven and earth (and I’m not saying who is who just before you tout your superiority to your partner). What I mean by this is that a man and a woman are two diametrically opposed beings that have an inter-relationship that forms the foundation for life. They are like two different planets each with their own atmospheres, rules and outlooks. However, that does not mean that the two cannot come together or co-exist, in fact, one cannot exist without the other, no matter what you may think. Man and woman complement each other perfectly.

The first meeting between two people who will ultimately share each other’s lives is often a pivotal point. Not only is there a physical attraction in some way, but the is also an interaction and an unconscious acknowledgement of each other’s spiritual nature and progression. When meeting a person for the first time, you unconsciously register that they vibrate on your wavelength, and although all facets will not coincide, which is why problems may emerge later, you will only notice that facet that is prevalent in your life at the current time. Unfortunately, this blinds a person to another’s faults or facets that don’t blend well.

The forming of a relationship, and ultimately an intimate one, allows a blending of energies and a way of transmuting the most base of emotions into something spiritual. This kind of shift can cause another person to change. Forging that link between hearts, minds, souls and bodies, is the most intimate link that can be made and it can create an empowerment that cannot be made in any other way. Very often this kind of deep commitment doesn’t last, as the strength of the joining energy wanes.

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Energy by its very nature is pulsating and irregular and has a series of waxing and waning. It is during the waning period that a person may start to notice more physical aspects of another person that does not gel with them. If a person continues to focus on these elements rather than trying to cement or work on waxing the spiritual energy again, then the relationship can soon run into problems or issues.

At the start of a relationship, people will generally separate out their own needs and forsake them in favor of the other person, which means they are not vibrating their own energy, but are showing a facade that they wish to portray. Then when a person returns to exhibiting their true nature and returning to owning their own needs, it is often considered that the person has changed. This is true to some extent, but not in the way that it is generally meant.

The act of making love and joining two souls together is a sacred one and it is a time of great vulnerability for both parties. Accepting and embracing that vulnerability helps a couple to blend together in a union that gives a glimpse back into our true natures, that which is God.